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		<title>By: Commitment and Consistency</title>
		<link>http://passingthru.com/2009/04/selling-isnt-selling-anymore/comment-page-1/#comment-1889</link>
		<dc:creator>Commitment and Consistency</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 15:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Constant Improvement is Better Than Delayed Perfection</title>
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		<dc:creator>Constant Improvement is Better Than Delayed Perfection</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 16:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Christine &#124; Communicate Value</title>
		<link>http://passingthru.com/2009/04/selling-isnt-selling-anymore/comment-page-1/#comment-1439</link>
		<dc:creator>Christine &#124; Communicate Value</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2009 19:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Betsy, love this. :)

I love that you mentioned Brian Tracy and Zig--2 of my favorites.

It&#039;s so true about the relationship-building.  It&#039;s one of the reasons I just love talking to business owners about social media in terms of marketing.  Those who love what they do but always felt deep down that selling and marketing were the most &quot;yucky&quot; aspects of being in business especially gravitate towards it once they see the possibilities.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Christine &#124; Communicate Value´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Communicatevalue/~3/-gxhbmuBFX4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Ashton Kutcher Hits 1 Million Twitter Followers; Early Adopters Groan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Betsy, love this. <img src='http://passingthru.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I love that you mentioned Brian Tracy and Zig&#8211;2 of my favorites.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so true about the relationship-building.  It&#8217;s one of the reasons I just love talking to business owners about social media in terms of marketing.  Those who love what they do but always felt deep down that selling and marketing were the most &#8220;yucky&#8221; aspects of being in business especially gravitate towards it once they see the possibilities.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Christine | Communicate Value´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Communicatevalue/~3/-gxhbmuBFX4/" rel="nofollow">Ashton Kutcher Hits 1 Million Twitter Followers; Early Adopters Groan</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://passingthru.com/2009/04/selling-isnt-selling-anymore/comment-page-1/#comment-1434</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 10:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that movie</description>
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		<title>By: Betsy Wuebker</title>
		<link>http://passingthru.com/2009/04/selling-isnt-selling-anymore/comment-page-1/#comment-1430</link>
		<dc:creator>Betsy Wuebker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 22:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Derek - Welcome to PassingThru.  The sales and marketing portion of our franchise operations manual was inspired by the Sandler Sales Institute.  They do very fine work, don&#039;t they?  And you&#039;re right, the concepts are well utilized in other areas as well.  Thank you.

Hi Kathy - I will have to read Neil Rackham - sounds like a great resource, thank you!  And thanks for linking back to this post, too.  Long-term thinking would almost demand that you not hog all your client&#039;s media allocation, wouldn&#039;t it?  Sheesh.  And you&#039;re right: problem = solution = sale, every time.  Thanks.

Hi Alik - Welcome to Passing Thru!  How frustrating to tee up a sale and have someone else whiff the ball!  Building trust is so elemental - and some companies don&#039;t want to invest in the training that would enable stronger results.  Boggling!  Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Derek &#8211; Welcome to PassingThru.  The sales and marketing portion of our franchise operations manual was inspired by the Sandler Sales Institute.  They do very fine work, don&#8217;t they?  And you&#8217;re right, the concepts are well utilized in other areas as well.  Thank you.</p>
<p>Hi Kathy &#8211; I will have to read Neil Rackham &#8211; sounds like a great resource, thank you!  And thanks for linking back to this post, too.  Long-term thinking would almost demand that you not hog all your client&#8217;s media allocation, wouldn&#8217;t it?  Sheesh.  And you&#8217;re right: problem = solution = sale, every time.  Thanks.</p>
<p>Hi Alik &#8211; Welcome to Passing Thru!  How frustrating to tee up a sale and have someone else whiff the ball!  Building trust is so elemental &#8211; and some companies don&#8217;t want to invest in the training that would enable stronger results.  Boggling!  Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Alik Levin &#124; PracticeThis.com</title>
		<link>http://passingthru.com/2009/04/selling-isnt-selling-anymore/comment-page-1/#comment-1428</link>
		<dc:creator>Alik Levin &#124; PracticeThis.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Betsy.
Whoa! What a read.
I am a consultant myself. I deliver, not sell. But I am the guy who usually prepares the prospect before the salesman comes in. What worked the best is building trust first [that is actually i am reading this post, I came from Kathy&#039;s writeup on trust]. 
The worst nightmare for me was is when the salesman comes in and literally ruins the trust you have been building for so long.....

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Alik Levin &#124; PracticeThis.com´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PracticeThis/~3/PRJoVFkofTM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What Your Kid Knows About Creativity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Betsy.<br />
Whoa! What a read.<br />
I am a consultant myself. I deliver, not sell. But I am the guy who usually prepares the prospect before the salesman comes in. What worked the best is building trust first [that is actually i am reading this post, I came from Kathy's writeup on trust].<br />
The worst nightmare for me was is when the salesman comes in and literally ruins the trust you have been building for so long&#8230;..</p>
<p><abbr><em>Alik Levin | PracticeThis.com´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PracticeThis/~3/PRJoVFkofTM/" rel="nofollow">What Your Kid Knows About Creativity</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:26:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Betsy-

&quot;Trust will close the sale for you every time.&quot; - and it will.  However, as you point out - trust takes time to build.  Most sales mangers don&#039;t have the PATIENCE to implement the wise words of Zig Ziglar, Brian Tracy or Neil Rackham (Spin Selling - it&#039;s a MUST READ!)

I used to drive my sales managers NUTS back in the day when I was &quot;selling&quot; advertising.  I&#039;ll never forget when my GM learned that I was in TOTAL control of several clients advertising budgets - and I wasn&#039;t allocating 100% of their media buy to the station.  I am sure that realization easily took 10 years off his life. 

So often, sales people are focused on the short term.  They&#039;re so busy trying to hit this quarter&#039;s sales quota that they don&#039;t worry about next year&#039;s sales quota.   However, when you do find such a gem - when you find a sales person who is interested in helping you to solve a PROBLEM you have instead of meeting a sales quota he/she has - ah, that&#039;s a beautiful thing!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://virtualimpax.com/2009/04/09/social-media-marketing-communication-condoms/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Social Media and Communication:  How your mindset shapes the mesage.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Betsy-</p>
<p>&#8220;Trust will close the sale for you every time.&#8221; &#8211; and it will.  However, as you point out &#8211; trust takes time to build.  Most sales mangers don&#8217;t have the PATIENCE to implement the wise words of Zig Ziglar, Brian Tracy or Neil Rackham (Spin Selling &#8211; it&#8217;s a MUST READ!)</p>
<p>I used to drive my sales managers NUTS back in the day when I was &#8220;selling&#8221; advertising.  I&#8217;ll never forget when my GM learned that I was in TOTAL control of several clients advertising budgets &#8211; and I wasn&#8217;t allocating 100% of their media buy to the station.  I am sure that realization easily took 10 years off his life. </p>
<p>So often, sales people are focused on the short term.  They&#8217;re so busy trying to hit this quarter&#8217;s sales quota that they don&#8217;t worry about next year&#8217;s sales quota.   However, when you do find such a gem &#8211; when you find a sales person who is interested in helping you to solve a PROBLEM you have instead of meeting a sales quota he/she has &#8211; ah, that&#8217;s a beautiful thing!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kathy | Virtual Impax´s last blog post..<a href="http://virtualimpax.com/2009/04/09/social-media-marketing-communication-condoms/" rel="nofollow">Social Media and Communication:  How your mindset shapes the mesage.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Derek Scruggs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Derek Scruggs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 12:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might want to check out the David Sandler sales method, which is pretty much the opposite of everything you described. He developed it as a reaction to that. People have come to hate salespeople and see through their tactics. Sandler basically salespeople should shut up and listen, make sure they understand what the prospect really wants, then only present the features that are interesting/useful to the prospect. 

The result is that you have more authentic conversations with the prospect because you break down barriers and they share their real concerns. It&#039;s an amazing program. I use it in more than just sales.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might want to check out the David Sandler sales method, which is pretty much the opposite of everything you described. He developed it as a reaction to that. People have come to hate salespeople and see through their tactics. Sandler basically salespeople should shut up and listen, make sure they understand what the prospect really wants, then only present the features that are interesting/useful to the prospect. </p>
<p>The result is that you have more authentic conversations with the prospect because you break down barriers and they share their real concerns. It&#8217;s an amazing program. I use it in more than just sales.</p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 07:54:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Betsy! Thank you for this wonderful reply. I really needed to read this. I&#039;m just a bit stunned while I sit and allow this to &quot;land&quot;. Woosh... got it :-)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Davina´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/04/09/blog-maintenance-upgrade/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What Have You Done for Your Blog Lately?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Betsy! Thank you for this wonderful reply. I really needed to read this. I&#8217;m just a bit stunned while I sit and allow this to &#8220;land&#8221;. Woosh&#8230; got it <img src='http://passingthru.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Davina´s last blog post..<a href="http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/04/09/blog-maintenance-upgrade/" rel="nofollow">What Have You Done for Your Blog Lately?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Betsy Wuebker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Betsy Wuebker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barbara - I wish every retailer would have a self-imposed ban on &quot;May I help you?&quot;  How nice to be greeted by &quot;Good morning, and welcome!  Please feel free to browse - new items are here and markdowns are over there!&quot;  and have that be the end.  Like you, I sold real estate.  Talk about temporary insanity - it happens when we buy and sell our homes.  Normal everyday people turned into maniacs!  I was very disillusioned in that industry.  We got rid of our land line at home, so no telephone solicitors!  Yay!  You&#039;re right that blogging is another story - we&#039;re (hopefully) developing relationships, which is the first step in the process.  Thanks.

Hi Jannie - It&#039;s a pleasant experience when we need to buy something and the salesperson can help with the perfect, even if unexpected thing, isn&#039;t it?  I&#039;ve heard good things about that Etre system before.  Sadly, it seems good training is the first to go when retail slows - and then when it&#039;s good times, they figure they don&#039;t have to help the customer - just move on to the next one.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara &#8211; I wish every retailer would have a self-imposed ban on &#8220;May I help you?&#8221;  How nice to be greeted by &#8220;Good morning, and welcome!  Please feel free to browse &#8211; new items are here and markdowns are over there!&#8221;  and have that be the end.  Like you, I sold real estate.  Talk about temporary insanity &#8211; it happens when we buy and sell our homes.  Normal everyday people turned into maniacs!  I was very disillusioned in that industry.  We got rid of our land line at home, so no telephone solicitors!  Yay!  You&#8217;re right that blogging is another story &#8211; we&#8217;re (hopefully) developing relationships, which is the first step in the process.  Thanks.</p>
<p>Hi Jannie &#8211; It&#8217;s a pleasant experience when we need to buy something and the salesperson can help with the perfect, even if unexpected thing, isn&#8217;t it?  I&#8217;ve heard good things about that Etre system before.  Sadly, it seems good training is the first to go when retail slows &#8211; and then when it&#8217;s good times, they figure they don&#8217;t have to help the customer &#8211; just move on to the next one.  Thank you.</p>
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